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Oversized Denim Jacket and Life Update

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Hey guys, I know I have been away for a while and the reason was due to some technical issues on getting my site up and running, which, if you follow me on instagram, you would have come across it and if you don’t follow me on there, please do so now. Thank you.

This post is kinda like an update post whereby I keep you informed about somethings that have been happening with me or that are currently going on. So, here goes:

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Life Update

How have things been in general?

Things have been pretty much unstable. Sometimes, I’ve got a lot of stuff to do that I’d just sit and cry, sometimes I get completely jobless and bored, other times, I’m just having fun, chilling, relaxing (I think that’s the same as chilling, right?) stalking people on Instagram (btw, if you can’t find me on here, just know that you will always find me on Instagram even if I ain’t posting anything, I’m there!) and just living in the moment.

How have you dealt with all of these?

Most times when I’m stressed out or anxious, I listen to a playlist on my phone titled “stressed” which basically consists of a mix of slow songs and party songs. I take out time to create this playlist which helps in taking my mind off things. Sometimes, I take a long walk around my estate, talk to a friend or just find somewhere really nice to eat! (Yes! I love me some good food).

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What are you currently


To be honest, I haven’t been reading much, neither I’m I currently reading anything or book at all. Although, I have been wanting to read “Think and grow rich” by Napoleon Hill. There are like tons of editions to this book but I really wanna read the original unabridged edition. I have it, just haven’t had the time to get around it. When I do read it, I’d definitely write a review about it. Have you read it? Please tell me what you think about it.

listening to?

I’m listening to “Caught feelings” by Mckenzie Small. It’s a slow emotional song. I love listening to slow songs on really low volume while I’m writing a blog post. It helps me concentrate and be relaxed at the same time.


A black body hug top with little lace details, a flair skirt and bathroom slippers .lol. I would be styling the top and skirt on the blog real soon. Wore them out earlier today to go register my niece in school. Can’t believe she’s two already! Time really does fly and I love spending so much time with her. If you follow me on Snapchat, you’ve met her. If you don’t, what are you waiting for. Do the rightful. It’s ms_disu in case you are wondering.

working on?

My Youtube Channel which I spoke about here. I have been recording and editing videos and trying to do what I think I need to do to get my channel up and running. Although I do not have a camera yet, I work with my Laptop and phone. Also, I have a hard time deciding on the best video editor to use. If you’ve got any suggestions, please let me know what I can use on a windows laptop. Thanks in advance. Also working on collaborations with brands. I am also working on getting a camera, cause, usually, not having a camera is the excuse I give for not posting up pictures. Forgive me.

excited about?

SALLAH!!! (SALLAH MEAT to be precise). The fam and I have been preparing for sallah. It’s that time of the year where we Muslims kill ram and just have a chilled time with friends and family. There’s going to be a little party at my house and we’ve been prepping for that. Also, collaborations with brands! why wouldn’t I be excited about this?

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What’s your favorite

fashion item atm?

It definitely has to be my oversized denim jacket. Like, I love how you could just throw it on whatever it is you already have on or better still, wear it as a shirt. I would be doing a series on different ways in which it could be styled. What’s your favorite fashion item?

chill spot?

I would say BarBar Lagos why?I love the ambience. It’s got a large airy courtyard  and also a cavern. Their cocktails are named after haircuts cause they’ve also got a barbing salon and they taste so good. Trust me, I’ve tasted a number. Besides all of that, It’s just somewhere I could go to just relax and socialize. The staff and owners are just really great personalities. It’s also a really good place to host an event. The Blogger Point hosted an event here recently, check out the site.


I actually do not have any favorite food. Of late, I have been experimenting with my taste buds and improving my cooking skills and I’m glad that the males in my life have a great love for cooking. I know right! I’m the luckiest.


my love for white and black can never die. They are my one true love and I love them both equally. I think Blue is finding it’s way into the family. I’m still trying to experiment with colors though and very open although, I’m not a fan of bright colors.

Are you in a relationship and who’s your favorite person right now?

I’m in a relationship, I’m not in a relationship what does it matter. I’m happy (I’m not just saying this for saying sake but I really I’m happy. If you’ve met me, you can testify) and I am really proud of myself of how far I have come. My previous relationship ended in a very disastrous manner and I was in a very bad place after that. I was broken, body, mind, heart, soul, everything (story for another day) Right now, I’m so far away from there. I can tell you there’s someone though, I’m I in a relationship with this person? hmm…

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My favorite person right now is myself. I admire what I have been through, the person I have become, the person I am becoming and the person I’m going to become. I have grown a lot in these past few months, although I’m a different person, I’m still me.

Okay, so… I think that’s going to be it for now and this is where I stop typing. It feels nice sharing this part of myself with you and I’m thinking of doing this monthly.

I’m going to start reading the book and post up the review soon, also, I’m to take out my tooth, let’s see how that goes.

Would you want to see these types of posts monthly?

Do you want me to write about my previous relationship, how I moved past it and became this happy person that I am today? 

What have you been up to? Feel free to share

Also, I’m looking to meet up with new people and maybe we could go check out my fav chill spot or explore a new place, if you’re interested, let me know.

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